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Creating Pathways to Better Communication 😀💜

Could you please explain it to me in more simple terms?

Be none the wiser – Video by Simon Sinek

Reading is the key to understanding our world. I am not here to change the system, I’m here to change our approaches. Change the people, and you change the system. We are in this together. The future is up to us.

“The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.”

Charles Kettering 

Lisa Ower mentions in her article here  ‘No matter what the change is, big or small, it must be able to link to your culture, overall purpose and vision of the company. Even if management views the change as beneficial, if your employees can’t link the change to the existing culture or organizational purpose, it will be difficult for them to carry out these transformations.’

Questions to Ask Yourself

  • How do I think?
  • How are humans are wired?
  • How to change my mindset?
  • What does success look like to me?
  • How does the human brain react?
  • What’s in it for me?
  • Ways to understand my behaviour?

For me change is good change, change is hard. It is part of the human experience. I found change difficult and I felt insecure about myself, but it was worth it.

I made the toughest decision to close my struggling business and lost my home nine years ago. My family fell apart and as a mum I struggled through the hard times, putting myself in a difficult situation. It’s taken a lot of mental clarity to help me find my focus and direction, it forced me to go to the next level. I went through a very emotional journey, me against the world. Sometimes you need to do you and take a step back to live a peaceful and authentic life. Show up and love them hard, only then will you realise what’s important.

“In order to change the world, you have to get your head together first.”

Jimi Hendrix 

Eventually, realised I needed to take responsibility for my life and my happiness. Happiness is a choice. I had to put myself first before supporting my children’s mental health. Happy mum, happy child. It improved my confidence and well-being. My life and  motherhood  has been a rollercoaster of highs and lows but never boring. Helping my children was a great way to help myself.

What’s your culture, purpose and vision?

I’ve learned through my journey that doing too much for your kids is not an effective parenting strategy.

“Very often a change of self is needed more than a change.”

A. C. Benson 

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Are You Thinking About Christmas Shopping Yet? 🎄

Read more on “If you don’t like how things are, change it! You’re not a tree.” – By Philosiblog

If you observe, you will see that people with a positive demeanor enjoy life and change over the years through day-to-day relationships and experiences. Make personal development a priority for yourself. Work hard and avoid the humble brag. Be patient instead of getting angry. Have a cup of tea with a scone and chill out! ❤️

You’ll love some of these Christmas ideas by Istockphotos

“You have to start with the truth. The truth is the only way that we can get anywhere. Because any decision-making that is based upon lies or ignorance can’t lead to a good conclusion.”

Julian Assange

“A work of art expresses itself as a balance sheet pitting the spoken against the unspoken.”

Russell Sherman

You don’t inspire your teamates by showing them how amazing you are. you inspire them showing how amazing they are.

Robyn Benincasa

“Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true.”

Robert Brault

“When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.”

Thomas Sowell

“The wise try to adjust themselves to the truth, while fools try to adjust the truth to themselves.”

Thibaut

“Truth hurts but what hurts makes you stronger.”

Maxime Lagacé

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”

Gloria Steinem

“In this era of fake news and paid news artificial intelligence is more and more used as a political tool to manipulate and dictate common people, through big data, biometric data, and AI analysis of online profiles and behaviors in social media and smart phones. But the days are not far when AI will also control the politicians and the media too.”

Amit Ray

Think before you #humblebrag

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Love is an Art❤️

Our childhood is the best part of our lives and our childhood memories shape our lives and make us who we are today.

Love is the battlefield, those who want true love has to fight for it. Beyond differences created by humans such as caste, creed, country, religion, race and culture.

Santosh Kalwar

❤️ Why did the banana go out with the prune?

Because it couldn’t get a date. ❤️

Valentine’s Day Ideas

You’ll love these pics by free Istock Photos

Have an amazing Valentine’s Day. 💌

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Made with Love this St. Valentine’s Day ~❤️

14th February 2021 ♡

For all you Nutella chocolate lovers out there spread the love this Valentine’s, with this homemade sweet and rich nutty chocolate spread and high in antioxidants. How about whipping up a jar of your own to serve with waffles, over a slice of toast, or add it into your favourite baking recipes.

My Goodness, My Chocolate is a dairy free chocolate & hazelnut spread, a delicious treat with little ingredients.

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Chocolate spread jar on table close up

Valentine Chocolate Spread Homemade Nutella

My Goodness,
My Chocolate Recipe
Cooking Time
Prep Time:15 Minutes
Total Time:15 Minutes
Servings:15©
Calories per 15g:85 kcal per tsp
Calories per 100g:566 kcal
Author:Enza Hebert
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Ingredients

1 cup of roasted skinned hazelnuts 1tbsp coconut oil 1tsp vanilla extract 1/8tsp salt 1/2 cup powdered sugar 1/4 cup dark cocoa powder 50g dark chocolate (optional) 100ml of nut milk or regular milk

Method

Put in and grind the hazelnuts to form a paste, add melted coconut oil and blend, then add vanilla, salt, powdered sugar, cocoa powder (you can use melted chocolate) add some nut milk or regular milk until it goes to the liquid thickness that you like. Once finished, pour the chocolate spread into a sterilised jar, cool and keep the chocolate nut spread at room temperature for up to two weeks. ______________________________________

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Nutella…. The only reason to buy bread 🙂
Don’t forget….it’s Valentine’s Day this Sunday
All you need is love & a Valentine cupcake❤️

If you make this recipe, please leave a comment, to let me know how you got on.

Happy Valentine’s Day, Sweetheart.

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Turning Dreams Into Reality 💖😄

We so complex; we’re mysteries to ourselves; we’re difficult to each other. And then storytelling reminds us we’re all the same.” – Brad Pitt

“Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around you, but rather what’s happening inside you. Most people depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is, it always comes from within.” – Anonymous

Thank you to the photographers for their amazing photos and inspirational quotes.

I am a very sensitive person but also an empath. I take on the emotional and physical pain of people I know, those I love and care about. The pain I experience when I see someone suffering can be very frightening. I would wake up and feel anxiety for no reason. I would feel their pain as if it’s going to happen and I’d have no control over it.

The world needs me right now. The world needs real connection, human connection. The only person that matters is you. There will be times in your life when being selfish is the right thing to do for your health and well-being and other sometimes we need help.

The world needs more compassion, more understanding and more friendships. The world needs more love.

”There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” – Maya Angelou

Follow your Heart xx

Enza Hebert
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Happiness is a Journey, not a Destination 😄

Happiness is a cup of coffee
In the words of Aristotle: “Happiness depends on ourselves.”

More on Happiness! Continue reading here
“Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around you, but rather what’s happening inside you. Most people depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is, it always comes from within.” – Anonymous
Happiness is not the absence of problems; it’s the ability to deal with them.” ― Steve Maraboli
“happiness is to be found along the way not at the end of the road, for then the journey is over and it’s too late.” – Robert Updegraff
There are no great people in this world, only great challenges which ordinary people rise to meet. – William Frederick Halsey, Jr.
“Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. ” — Carl Jung
“Happiness is having a sense of meaning and purpose.”
“Everybody’s rooting for you to fail. That’s what makes it fun.” – Jocelyn Dashwood

I hope I have been of some help and have it make some difference to understanding ‘The Pursuit of Happiness’ and the science behind it. Happiness increases feelings of well-being, confidence and belonging.

“Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy.Valerie Bertinelli

Believe in Yourself, When Others Don’t!

xx

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W, the Month of Love ♡

Thank you! 💖

It’s February, the month when love is in the air. February 14th is St. Valentine’s Day and is a great month to celebrate friendship and love. February is the coldest month of the year, a perfect time to cuddle up with a loved one or get a little ‘me’ time this winter. February is a time to listen out for birds singing, connecting with nature and looking out for early spring flowers. A time for wellness and a time for wisdom, spend time every day reflecting on these.

Hello February Pink Tree

February ideas:

  • Take a photo of a flower
  • Give the flower to someone you care about
  • Tweet the flower, thinking about the meaning of the flower and why you have choosen this person with a hashtag #monthoflove
  • Smile and thank a cashier at checkout
  • Help a family member complete a chore
  • Share an inspirational or encouraging quote on social media
  • Donate canned food to foodbanks
  • Walk through our neighborhood and pick up litter

Love these ideas ღ❤~ Enza

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The Best Gifts Can’t be Bought in a Store – Donate Blood 🎁

Going to give blood is essential travel during lockdown, a very important one. I went a week ago to the @givebloodnhs centre in London Borough of Hillingdon to give a pint of blood. My 9th donation to date.

Donate if you can….. http://www.giveblood.co.uk

Here is a website to change your life to inspire and motivate you….

Love, Enza Hebert

Facts Over Fiction ❤️

Stephen King quoted “The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.

Listen to people, get them to think about their own experience, and emphasize your common humanity. Understanding their own needs and the needs of others is fundamental as we are connected not only by happiness in our lives, but in our struggles, suffering and fears.

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Stay safe 💜

“If you don’t have time to read, you don’t have the time (or the tools) to write.” – quote by Stephen King.

Thank you!

Stay Neutral with News – Solving Real World Problems 🤗🌷

“If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.” “Double your money is to fold it and put it back in your pocket.” – Quote by Will Rogers

The bottom line is that we need to cut out all superfluous details and focus on the primary problem. We need to stop selling out to short term profit and one’s personal interest or advantage, especially when pursued without regard for others. Self-interest is selfish and has bad intentions.

There is no need to prove your worthiness and pretend to be someone you’re not. In the end, the pressure to impress people only hurts the people you love most. Speaking to a mental health professional can help you sort out your pain.

There’s always more than one solution to a problem. Spending more money than necessary to fix the original problem, it’s a no brainer. ‘Make time and ‘invest in the right resources’ there is no quick fix only more problems – Click here to read more on ‘Throwing money at a problem

A quote you may have heard “put your own oxygen mask on first, before helping others’. Your mental health is a priority. After birth, responsibility starts.

“People want to share information that is newsworthy – in some sense the truth value is less of a concern,” – says Psychology Prof Geoffrey Beattie from Edge Hill University in Lancashire.

He continues to say “The point about gossip is, the best gossip is juicy gossip – the last thing people are worried about is whether it is true or not.

Everyone takes time to recover from life traumas, whether it’s a mental illness or a physical illness, we need to take care of it. It can affect children and adults at any given time and does not discriminate.

There are plenty of credible videos out there interviewing celebrities. I have posted a YouTube video below of Halsey’s interview. Try checking out her journey and then list videos you know that are credible.

“If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.”
Once Upon A time……

The proverbial saying ‘bad news travels fast’ can be taken literally. In a wider sense it is a comment on human nature being more interested in failure than success.” – quoted here

Best Wishes.