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Creating Pathways to Better Communication 😀💜

Could you please explain it to me in more simple terms?

Be none the wiser – Video by Simon Sinek

Reading is the key to understanding our world. I am not here to change the system, I’m here to change our approaches. Change the people, and you change the system. We are in this together.

“The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.”

Charles Kettering

Lisa Ower mentions in her article here ‘No matter what the change is, big or small, it must be able to link to your culture, overall purpose and vision of the company. Even if management views the change as beneficial, if your employees can’t link the change to the existing culture or organizational purpose, it will be difficult for them to carry out these transformations.’

Questions to Ask Yourself

  • How do I think?
  • How are humans are wired?
  • How to change my mindset?
  • What does success look like to me?
  • How does the human brain react?
  • What’s in it for me?
  • Ways to understand my behaviour?

For me change is good change, change is hard. It is part of the human experience. I found change difficult and I felt insecure about myself, but it was worth it.

I made the toughest decision to close my struggling business and lost my home nine years ago. My family fell apart and as a mum I struggled through the hard times. I went through a very emotional journey, me against the world. It’s taken a lot of mental clarity to help me find my focus and direction. Sometimes you need to do you and take a step back to live a peaceful and authentic life. Show up and love them hard, only then will you realise what’s important.

“In order to change the world, you have to get your head together first.”

Jimi Hendrix

Eventually, realised I needed to take responsibility for my life and my happiness. Happiness is a choice. I had to put myself first before supporting my children’s mental health. Happy mum, happy child. It improved my confidence and well-being. My life and motherhood has been a rollercoaster of highs and lows but never boring. Helping my children was a great way to help myself.

What’s your culture, purpose and vision?

I’ve learned through my journey that doing too much for your kids is not an effective parenting strategy.

“Very often a change of self is needed more than a change.”

A. C. Benson

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Are You Thinking About Christmas Shopping Yet? 🎄

Read more on “If you don’t like how things are, change it! You’re not a tree.” – By Philosiblog

If you observe, you will see that people with a positive demeanor enjoy life and change over the years through day-to-day relationships and experiences. Make personal development a priority for yourself. Work hard and avoid the humble brag. Be patient instead of getting angry. Have a cup of tea with a scone and chill out! ❤️

You’ll love some of these Christmas ideas by Istockphotos

“You have to start with the truth. The truth is the only way that we can get anywhere. Because any decision-making that is based upon lies or ignorance can’t lead to a good conclusion.”

Julian Assange

“A work of art expresses itself as a balance sheet pitting the spoken against the unspoken.”

Russell Sherman

You don’t inspire your teamates by showing them how amazing you are. you inspire them showing how amazing they are.

Robyn Benincasa

“Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true.”

Robert Brault

“When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.”

Thomas Sowell

“The wise try to adjust themselves to the truth, while fools try to adjust the truth to themselves.”

Thibaut

“Truth hurts but what hurts makes you stronger.”

Maxime Lagacé

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”

Gloria Steinem

“In this era of fake news and paid news artificial intelligence is more and more used as a political tool to manipulate and dictate common people, through big data, biometric data, and AI analysis of online profiles and behaviors in social media and smart phones. But the days are not far when AI will also control the politicians and the media too.”

Amit Ray

Think before you #humblebrag

Start the New Year Right!

Daily drinking and binge drinking in today’s teenagers is a persistent public health problem with short and long term consequences e.g. brain function, risk taking, relationship problems, mental health, double life, drink driving and more.

It’s about time that the government acknowledges in understanding ‘dependence on substsance abuse’ is real and dangerous. It has psychologically affected, destroyed families and damaged many individuals. I would like to see the government do something about it, and save the struggles of everyone, especially teenagers, who learn by imitating us and in future generations; to focus on health and love.

iea.org.uk has been quoted in 2016 “Revenues from alcohol taxation in England amount to £10.4 billion, leaving an annual net benefit to the government of £6.5 billion. The estimated cost of alcohol-related violent crime is nearly £1 billion per annum.

For more information, visit the publishers story here

Other external environmental factors that can increase a person’s risk to addiction beyond friends, include parental/family influence, cultural norms, media representation, learned physical association and poor social skills.

Some are dependent on substance such as, alcohol, nicotine, illicit drugs, or even prescription medications.

Others may have behavioral addictions which are serious too, they include; gaming addiction, sex addiction, self-harming, internet addiction, shopping addiction, video game addiction, food addiction, exercise addiction, work addiction, love addiction, tattoo addiction & porn addiction.

An addiction can be a distressing condition and needs to be understood and taken seriously. Anyone at any time can suffer these illnesses and may know someone who may be suffering.

If you need to speak to someone you can call on Samaritans freephone on 116 123.

All in this together💖

“Know all the theories, master all the techniques, but as you touch a human soul, be just another human soul.”

Stress|| Every Mind Matters

Are you ok?

At presents, there is a race of competition increases in youth for selection in competitive exams, gaining in percentage on board exams, got a job for earning money that creates stress especially in youth. Tension increases in marriage life, making a career, boy friend girlfriend relationship, and responsibility of how to manage family is also […]

What is Stress, Types, Symptoms, Causes of Stress

Money is Important But Not More Than Your Mental Health 💜

“People who don’t see you every day have a hard time understanding how on some days–good days–you can run three miles, but can barely walk across the parking lot on other days,’ [my mom] said quietly.”

Jennifer Starzec

I have created a link to the Invisible Illness board to share important pins because it can happen to you….We are all in this together♡

“Empathy is important because it helps us understand how others are feeling so we can respond appropriately to the situation and to connect” by Stephen Khan

With Chronic Illness You Can’t see the Pain
“According to Gov.uk there over 11,000,000 Million People in the UK who suffer with a disability and the majority of those disabilities are Invisible” – Connie Wardale🍁

“You don’t have to struggle in silence. You can be un-silent. You can live well with a mental health condition, as long as you open up to somebody about it, because it’s really important you share your experience with people so that you can get the help that you need.” — Demi Lovato

Pandemic life vs. Disability life for me

Click here to read on to see how other people are coping and pick up some tips to support your journey along the way.

Brainless Blogger

I thought I would post the comparison between the normal person’s Pandemic Life vs. My Disabled Life… currently. Because there are similarities and differences.

Pandemic life vs. disability life for me

Samesies

The same with a normal person’s experience with COVID-19 and having to stay at home with the stress, anxiety and rapid changes in their lives

How my experience being disabled is similar to the Pandemic Life

  1. I have lost my job to being disabled, So Many have been laid off due to the COVID-19 pandemic. I remember what that felt like. And I remember all the emotions and fear and anxiety that comes with that.
  2. I went on disability and many are going on the Canadian EI package (Canada Emergency Response Benefit) to supply income… and both of us are aware of income instability. This doesn’t match our actual income (Mine more so, obviously, since it is less than 2000 a month)- This…

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World Hunger 💙

This is a global problem, what are they and what can you do to help?

Causes of hunger are; war & conflict, climate change, food waste, poor water & sanitation, gender inequality, government systems, natural disasters, etc….

If we are going to fight world hunger then one solution that needs to be re-evaluated is Social Change in a time of Covid-19 because it’s now reaching countries most vulnerable to the health and well-being.

This is a global problem and to end world hunger by 2030 ‘The Borgen Project’ has identified these ten sustainable solutions to inspire people and communities to think differently, bring positive changes, eliminate suffering in the world and save lives.

Click here to read ’10 Ways to Stop World Hunger’ which covers all aspects of supporting this 2020 Health Initiative.

The first essential component of social justice is adequate food for all mankind. Food is the moral right of all who are born into this world.” – Norman Borlaug, biologist and humanitarian.