Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” – Ian MacLaren
Making your own life decisions makes you responsible and allows you to make your own mistakes, whether good or not. You need to make your own choices. The focus should be on the decision making process not the outcome……
By not making your own choices you are allowing other people to make your life choices, giving them control over your life which leads you to do what other people want, it stands to reason because what you want is to much work.
Ultimately the decision is yours, but before you make decisions, those decisions need to be based on what is best for you so before you ask for advice, ask yourself if someone has a hidden agenda. Albert Einstein once said “intuition is our most valuable asset, and one of our most unused senses.” Trust your gut, it never lies.